Teen Porn Panic

Teen Porn Panic

  In a panic about rampant porn viewing warping teen sexuality? Great! It’s a big concern. But if Sex-Ed is not the next word out of your mouth, then close it. Please. You are part of the problem. And by sex education, I mean informed, diverse, comprehensive,...
At Ease

At Ease

  Those that can not soften risk being shattered           Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink – Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual...
Sexual Poison

Sexual Poison

  Sexual shame poisons our authentic sexuality. The poison infects, distorts and inhibits our natural sexual expression. Our immersion in shame-driven environments and cultures has bred sex-negative emotional messages within our psyches that can relentlessly...
Sex and Violence

Sex and Violence

    What separates sex from violence is Eros.  Without the intention of mutual Eros, sex is an attack, a take down, a mounting of one over another, a hunger sated, a biological imperative fulfilled.  It is predator and prey at its most primal, cold-blooded...
Cradle to Grave

Cradle to Grave

    The Erotic Wilderness is a vast territory well beyond the societal norm. It is a complex, alluring aspect of the sexual psyche largely unexplored by individuals, couples or culture. Eros relentlessly and seductively beckons us to venture into the...
Your Only Chance

Your Only Chance

All I can do and give is my best effort to my life and mission…the rest is up to the mystery, often called Spirit. I try to revisit this awareness when I am feeling some loathsome, fearful, shaming self-judgment that I am going to fail or fall embarrassingly short. I...