Pro tips for determining sexual normalcy. "Normal" put in quotes sums it all up. Normal should be tongue-in-cheek these days. There is no normal other than each individual’s sexual norm. I use the term "normal" now to mean personal to the individual. Your sexuality is...

  In a panic about rampant porn viewing warping teen sexuality? Great! It’s a big concern. But if Sex-Ed is not the next word out of your mouth, then close it. Please. You are part of the problem. And by sex education, I mean informed, diverse, comprehensive,...

  Those that can not soften risk being shattered           Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink - Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires. "Visionary...Masterful...Groundbreaking...Cutting Edge...Worth its...

  Sexual shame poisons our authentic sexuality. The poison infects, distorts and inhibits our natural sexual expression. Our immersion in shame-driven environments and cultures has bred sex-negative emotional messages within our psyches that can relentlessly...

    What separates sex from violence is Eros.  Without the intention of mutual Eros, sex is an attack, a take down, a mounting of one over another, a hunger sated, a biological imperative fulfilled.  It is predator and prey at its most primal, cold-blooded...

    The Erotic Wilderness is a vast territory well beyond the societal norm. It is a complex, alluring aspect of the sexual psyche largely unexplored by individuals, couples or culture. Eros relentlessly and seductively beckons us to venture into the...

All I can do and give is my best effort to my life and mission…the rest is up to the mystery, often called Spirit. I try to revisit this awareness when I am feeling some loathsome, fearful, shaming self-judgment that I am going to fail or fall embarrassingly short. I...

  An unprecedented percentage of the world population - men, women and a pantheon of identities in-between, are choosing to be liberated sexual beings. They no longer ignore nor hide that they are sexual creatures well beyond the imperative of procreation. This...

  If in some moment you feel desperate and hopeless, pushed to the very edge of your existence, a leap of faith may be the only leap you have. left. When rationality and determination have been depleted, don’t hesitate. Leap! FREE-fall into the dark impossible...

  If someone dwells in the safety of the shallows they will not find the deeper experience life offers. Popular culture is designed to keep us in the shallows. We are encouraged to kill the time we have for life with frivolous pursuits. It is the path most will...